A Parable Freeing Parental Guilt

What Judas's Mother Knows About Maternal Guilt and
The Detrimental Effects on Children
All Mothers Need to Know

 

Are Mothers Really Responsible for the Choices of her Children?

What is the difference between true responsibility
and false responsibility? 

The Mother of Judas will reveal the answers as she moves from a position of prestige to guilt, despair and redemption

Excerpt from the book:

"Mary, your dream was preparing you for the work I have for you to do. There are many mothers who need to hear your story. Your life will bless mothers for generations to come. Your story will give hope to those who have borne unwarranted guilt. You are my messenger to those to whom I have entrusted my children."

So goes the story in Judas's Mother, a book that explores a mother's profound sense of guilt and false responsibility for the actions of her son. Her grief at the loss of both Judas and Jesus causes her a completely withdraw from her former comfortable world of family and friends.

It is only through Mary's friend, Ameshia, and the honesty, courage, and intimacy with her loving friends and what God teaches them that Mary learns to lay her guilt aside. She returns to public life along with Ameshia as a teacher of the younger women teaching them how to raise responsible children without guilt.   She became a wise guide for mothers, including mothers of our own time.

Mary Iscariot shares her story of moving from a position of prestige, to guilt and shame, and finally to redemption and contribution. Mary's powerful story will ease the heaviness of guilt carried by modern mothers and even dads too.

This parenting book, Judas’s Mother, is written as a historical novel. As the reader relates to the mothers and their stories, the read is freed from guilt and knows how to raise her children to become responsible adults.  It is a compelling story that is inspiring and relevant to the world today. Whether you are a reader in search of a thought-provoking story, a Biblical history enthusiast, or a mother in pain, Bobbi Sims has written as story that will speak to your heart and free your soul.

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Is Maternal Guilt Causing You To . . .
           Anguish for not being a stay-at-home mom?
         Be content to support your adult children financially?
         Over compensate for not having a dad in the house?
         Feel your children’s choices are a reflection on you?
         Cripple your children by allowing them to get away with too much?

Would You Like To . . .
           Free yourself from guilt?
           Raise self-responsible children?
           Know the difference between true responsibility and false responsibility?

Maternal guilt is huge. It always has been and even more so today because of working mother's guilt, divorced mothers guilt and others with idealized expectations of themselves thus taking on a false sense of responsibly for the choices of their children. Mother's guilt is not talked about in social circles, nor addressed in religious institutions, and very few seek professional help working through it. Unmerited guilt is detrimental to both mother and child.

Mothers are well known for taking too much responsibility or too little     
responsibility for their children. Either way leads to guilt. Decisions based on
guilt damages both mother and child. In Judas’s Mother,, the author explores 
a mother's profound and unwarranted sense of guilt and a false sense of 
responsibility for the actions of her son.

READER FEEDBACK

It brings it all home!

This book is a must-read for every parent -- no matter what age your child(ren) is. The Biblical lessons applied to parenting in this book are such comforting guides for every parent of every generation. I thank Bobbi Sims for sharing her insights that took her many years and tears to discover. Those insights are a welcome blessing for every parent's heart and mind!”

--Nancy M. Bircher

 

Very Interesting!

“It was written in a story form but the message came through loud and clear. It helped me to realize once again that I am not responsible for the choices of my children, I did the best I knew how while raising them, and God's love and forgiveness is there for me and for my children. I would recommend that every mom read this helpful book.”   

--Kathy Wight

 

I finally understand my Mother

“My mother’s over controlling behavior led me to become a rebellious and resentful adult. I now see she was trying to avoid guilt.  I had even rebelled against God, and now I have let him into my heart.”

--Pam Freeman

 

Absolutely Awesome!!!

“This book is definitely a "must read" for all mothers! I learned a great deal - thanks Bobbi!”   --Cynthia Haaker

 

Powerful!

“This book is a precious gift; it moves His Message from the head to the heart.”

--D. Newman

 

I Could Hardly Put it Aside Until I read it Completely

“It had a large impact on my life in regard to my adult children and how I feel about myself concerning decisions that they made.  This book goes on my Christmas list.”     --Connie Huddleston

 

I Love Your Book

“You made it clear that once our children reach adulthood they make their own choices whether for good or ill. We can’t change it, nor are we responsible for their choices.”  --Mary Anne Sinclair

 The Best Book on this subject

"This is the best book I have read dealing with parental guilt."

  --Rev. Ralph Willis

Is it time to say goodbye to your parental guilt?
Judas's Mother will show you how.

What Judas's Mother Knows About Maternal Guilt
And The Detrimental Effects on Children,
All Mothers need to Know
 

Whether you are a reader in search of a thought-provoking  story,
a Biblical history enthusiast, or a mother in pain, Bobbi Sims’
          intriguing story will speak to your heart and free your soul.